We All Ride the Family Struggle Bus.
Do you ever strive to have a drama free and perfect holiday with your family?
We all do! But it’s a struggle to stay friendly with all your family plus, you'd be one of a kind if it was perfect!
We all have them, and they can be a blessing, an annoyance, or downright frustrating. Either way, you are stuck with them…and no I’m not talking about freckles! I’m talking about families.
Holidays can be a struggle and the larger your family is the more likely you are to get on each other’s nerves to some degree. Holiday season means shoving parents, step parents, siblings, girlfriends, boyfriends, crazy aunts, crazy uncles, crazy cousins, and pesky in-laws into one room and expecting a beautiful, happy holiday. What a nice dream.
Everyone has a messy family. No one is perfect, and no one has a perfect family no matter how hard they try to prove otherwise.
It’s easy to pretend your family life is purely beautiful and functional when you’re all focusing on your own lives but once the holidays arrive all of that pretending flies right out the window. The holidays are a great time for families to get together and remind everyone how dysfunctional we truly are, sometimes in the best ways.
Yes, holidays are filled with love, thankfulness, and good times but sometimes the drama that happens inside a family can add a lot of stress to such a happy occasion. Never mind piling a million people into one tiny space.
The more space you are given to move around then the more you can enjoy this precious family time! There is no need to be cramped into a sardine can sized kitchen with 80 people trying to make a Thanksgiving meal.
Do you really want to spread out with multiple tables and seating for the entire family? Of course not! We want to hear everything that’s happening in everyone’s lives, all of the drama, the new schools, jobs, pets, and any other life changes.
Choose a White Mountain cabin rental wisely!
If you do your homework and pick one with wonderful amenities (Four Seasons Lodge has an indoor pool! ) and is family friendly, everyone is sure to have a blast even in not so perfect weather!
No matter how much we struggle to get a long it really is all about love, togetherness, and creating memories.
We all bond over food (don’t tell anyone but that’s why brunch exists). The larger the seating area the better. That way you can all enjoy great food, conversation, catch-ups, and drinks together. That’s what holidays are supposed to be about.
These large family get-togethers are also a time for families to meet significant others-talk about stress! Not only is your significant other meeting your entire family and vice versa but they are seeing it in all of its dysfunctional glory. All the while your significant other is being judged, scrutinized, and they know it.
If you are put in charge of being the host/hostess for your family’s holiday get together and you don’t have enough room to comfortably enjoy everyone, a large North Conway vacation rental is a great option.
You can all split the cost and have enough room to spread the family out accordingly. The added annoyance with that is making sure everyone is happy with where you chose…but you can always pull the “it’s the holidays and it’s a time to be grateful…so you should just be thankful that you were even invited.”
HA. Just kidding. Do NOT say that…well…you can if you want. Depends on how savage you really are. I personally, am all for blunt honesty! If it was me, I’d say, I rented the cabin with the indoor pool, toasty sauna and 10 bedrooms and everyone will be ecstatic!
No matter where you choose to hold your holiday celebrations make sure to cherish every moment-no matter what.
Whether you have to figure out how to cook gluten-free for your crazy sister’s new diet, or have your parents breathing down your neck about how you’re not married yet—it’s still a time to be cherished!
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If you have a large family, it is typically a rarity for everyone to be together all at once. It’s a precious time and you can create some amazing memories together.
Get on Pinterest and find some fun crafts and games for the kids so that you can stock up on supplies, find new fun recipes that any crazy diet can enjoy (who knows what those significant others eat), drag in some holiday themed drinks and enjoy this precious time together!
At the end of the day, you’re all together and there is so much love to be shared and enjoyed. Leave the pettiness at home (and feel free to remind others to do the same) and have a blast bonding and creating memories no matter what size your family is.
If you need any help finding family friendly lodging or a White Mountain Cabin Rental, please give us a shout (www.FourSeasonsLodge.com). We love helping families find a vacation rental in North Conway that is perfect for them! 603-662-5391
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